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starting all over again
ok... here it goes... for my lovely friends who are really worried about me,and are questioning why i seem very slanted to 'love'... ^_^i am very sorryi'm ok... just that i was reminded of a conversation with a friend of mine which took place not too long time ago...as true as it is.. we can't live without men... and yes... we are nothing without men.. (just think of your father at the very least,ok...)so i was kind of tounge-tied when they said it's hard to live without having boyfriends... just friends i think that's what they meant... as for this truly yours... we grew up in an environment of girlfriends so for me, not having boyfriends is not a big issue to begin with... it's not my right to say...u're not supposed to go out with him... or u can't do this... obviously,i'm not in a position where i could order people according to what i feel and what i think... but a piece of advice from me,although i don't know if i have the right to say this out as i have boyfriends too but my classmates and i'm kind of close with them... but not being around them doesn't mean,i can't live and life is boring... it's a big NO NO...so here was what i said...or something like what i'm going to write... the meaning is the same... i just want to share..."kita boleh berkawan dengan lelaki tapi untuk sebab yang munasabah... kalau kita ada perasaan kat semua kawan lelaki kita,tu bukan sesuatu yang baik... hidup ni takkan jadi bosan kalau tak berkawan dengan lelaki... hidup bukan hanya tentang perasaan antara lelaki dan perempuan,hidup bukan hanya tentang ni... dan kalau berkawan dengan lelaki tanpa sebab,akan bawa kepada sesuatu yang tak baik,lebih baik kita jauhkan diri..." u get what i mean? it's not that i know what life has in stored for me, or i know what life is about... i am still a kid and an immature teen so there's still a lot to learn... but i believe that life is a journey so we have to keep walking in order to live and survive... maybe this opinion of mine is not true after all.. but that's what i believe... i realize that life is not all about what happen between a boy and a girl... it's not just about what they feel... there's much more than that... Syirul tak lah baik sgt... no one knows the truth,how much happiness and sadness there is in me... tp tu biasa lah kan? kalau selalu ketawa,kita akan rasa tak lengkap... dan kalau selalu nangis, kita akan rasa terlalu penat dan bosan... kena ada manis dan masin dan masam... hidup kena ada perisa tau.. ^_^ if u get what i mean...so that is why i posted what i posted... it's not all about me, you know? there's always a reason behind anything and everything... u get it? ^_^so that's that... hope all of you will gain somthing from this... so may the blessings of Allah is always with you... Ameen... ^_^
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The Dreaming Star
Hi there! You've entered the dreaming land of a twinkling star~ (^_^)
I'm nothing but an ordinary girl with sweet and painful memories~
It's hard to make me talk as I'm not quite friendly~
If you want to know more, read my posts, you'll know me~
Struggling to live in this not-forever world~
Islam is my religion!
I swear that there is no other God except for ALLAH and MUHAMMAD is the messenger of ALLAH! (^_^)
Wishes, Dreams, Du'a
-To be a solehah daughter~
-To be a solehah wife~
-To be a solehah mother~
-To be a solehah 'abdullah~
-To be a able to teach and make my children understand Islam and this world~
THOSE ARE MY WISHES.. CAN YOU HELP ME FULFILL IT? (^_^)
starting all over again
ok... here it goes... for my lovely friends who are really worried about me,and are questioning why i seem very slanted to 'love'... ^_^i am very sorryi'm ok... just that i was reminded of a conversation with a friend of mine which took place not too long time ago...as true as it is.. we can't live without men... and yes... we are nothing without men.. (just think of your father at the very least,ok...)so i was kind of tounge-tied when they said it's hard to live without having boyfriends... just friends i think that's what they meant... as for this truly yours... we grew up in an environment of girlfriends so for me, not having boyfriends is not a big issue to begin with... it's not my right to say...u're not supposed to go out with him... or
u can't do this...
obviously,i'm not in a position where i could order people according to what i feel and what i think... but a piece of advice from me,although i don't know if i have the right to say this out as i have boyfriends too but my classmates and i'm kind of close with them... but not being around them doesn't mean,i can't live and life is boring... it's a big NO NO...so here was what i said...or something like what i'm going to write... the meaning is the same... i just want to share..."kita boleh berkawan dengan lelaki tapi untuk sebab yang munasabah... kalau kita ada perasaan kat semua kawan lelaki kita,tu bukan sesuatu yang baik... hidup ni takkan jadi bosan kalau tak berkawan dengan lelaki... hidup bukan hanya tentang perasaan antara lelaki dan perempuan,hidup bukan hanya tentang ni... dan kalau berkawan dengan lelaki tanpa sebab,akan bawa kepada sesuatu yang tak baik,lebih baik kita jauhkan diri..."
u get what i mean? it's not that i know what life has in stored for me, or i know what life is about... i am still a kid and an immature teen so there's still a lot to learn... but i believe that life is a journey so we have to keep walking in order to live and survive... maybe this opinion of mine is not true after all.. but that's what i believe... i realize that life is not all about what happen between a boy and a girl... it's not just about what they feel... there's much more than that... Syirul tak lah baik sgt... no one knows the truth,how much happiness and sadness there is in me... tp tu biasa lah kan? kalau selalu ketawa,kita akan rasa tak lengkap... dan kalau selalu nangis, kita akan rasa terlalu penat dan bosan... kena ada manis dan masin dan masam... hidup kena ada perisa tau.. ^_^ if u get what i mean...so that is why i posted what i posted... it's not all about me, you know? there's always a reason behind anything and everything... u get it? ^_^so that's that... hope all of you will gain somthing from this... so may the blessings of Allah is always with you... Ameen... ^_^
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